You matter

Who is you? According to world English Dictionary you is a pronoun and 'refers to the person addressed or to more than one person including the person or persons addressed but not including the speaker.'

According to dictionary.com, the two most common and popular searches include I love you and I hate you...

Two sentences that create turmoil in each and every individual's life. However, in reality how many times does one think of the you and not of the I. Even in these two sentences the stress is more on the 'I' than on the 'YOU'. 'I hate' and 'I love', without giving a thought to what the other person many feel or want.

Anyways coming back to 'you'. Technically the word refers to a person, however, even god can be you. One always addresses god as you especially when one is busy praying or rather asking for tons of favors. You did not do this or you are heartless or lost all faith in you....You becomes the all powerful word when it comes to blaming, accusing or belittling someone else. However, once the favors or wishes come true, one goes back to saying God you are great, God you are wonderful...

Accuse you at the same time praise you...depending on the situation or circumstance existing at that particular moment....

But seldom any one takes out the time to say you matter...When addressing to god the only sentence one should say is you matter, you are everything...instead pleading, begging or getting angry is what most resort to.

The same is the case with human relationships irrespective of whatever form it is in. You seems to appear completely insignificant...Whether it is between a parent and a child, between spouses, friends or family relatives. You matter or you count or it is about you are hardly ever thought about. You doesn't count at all...If only you was given as much prominence as 'I', life would have been less complicated...